Bi-curious but nervous

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Last post: 17/02/2024 at 12:19 pm

SHYGIRLELLE
ShyGirlElle
30/01/2024 at 6:26 am

I’m a 37yo married mum of 2, who has known that I am bi-curious for a while, but has never been with a woman. My husband is aware and actually really encouraging. He’s happy for me to explore and make connections on my own, and I don’t want to miss the opportunity. The problem is that I feel so nervous about it. Particularly about not knowing what to do, and I feel worried that it wouldn’t be a good experience for the other person because I’m so inexperienced with women. Does anyone have any similar worries, if so, what did you do?

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LUCY B(32)98787
Lucy B(32)98787
11/02/2024 at 12:27 am

I feel the same, I don’t know where to start! I’m divorced and haven’t explored dating yet, so feeling very nervous about it all but don’t want to sit back and do nothing either x

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SHYGIRLELLE
ShyGirlElle
13/02/2024 at 5:51 am
In answer to
Lucy B(32)98787

I feel the same, I don’t know where to start! I’m divorced and haven’t explored dating yet, so feeling very nervous about it all but don’t want to sit back and do nothing either x

I’m hoping it’s one of those situations that if I start to act confident I’ll feel confident about this. I think, in my head, I’m just wishing the ideal scenario will fall into my lap, but looks like I might actually have to be proactive 😅. Keep me posted on your journey, and I’m happy to DM too x

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REID Y
Reid Y
17/02/2024 at 12:19 pm
In answer to
ShyGirlElle

I’m hoping it’s one of those situations that if I start to act confident I’ll feel confident about this. I think, in my head, I’m just wishing the ideal scenario will fall into my lap, but looks like I might actually have to be proactive 😅. Keep me posted on your journey, and I’m happy to DM too x

Hi 👋🏿 you and your husband seem ready to make an initial meet , you have nothing to lose by trying , say an initial meet up over drinks and see how you all interact and feel. Good luck

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