I’m bi curious woman and told him
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Last post: 25/01/2024 at 11:47 am
We’ve had our up and downs in our relationship but we got help and got stronger. We decided to be honest and open and I recently told my husband I was bi curious. Didn’t get much of response till he had time to digest. He was quite supportive and was even let’s say ‘turned on’ but are we opening a ‘can of worms’. Any advise? Should we pursue? Consequential?
You'll never know unless you've tried, but that could go either way - but should it? Is there any good reason why it would end badly? If so, then mull it over carefully.
End of the day, if you do nothing you may regret it forever. Equally, if you do something and the proverbially worms are unleashed, you can't pretend the situation never happened.
So, best bet is to seriously evaluate your relationship - together. Is it strong? What are the potential implications? What could go wrong (always worth considering the worse case scenario just in case). If it does goes pear-shaped, is your relationship resilient enough? If it goes well, does that expose complications you didn't foresee? And is this just a fantasy or a whim you can live without?
Don't enter it blindly, work it through together. Ultimately you insulate yourself against risk and what happens happens. But don't destroy what you have for nothing.
Thank you for the message and info. A lot to consider and digest. Will need to talk in out with him.
