Bullying Again!
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Last post: 06/02/2024 at 8:25 am
Please help I'm at my wits end! My daughter was being bullied at school by one girl and her "gang" behind her. My daughter eventually refused to even walk outside the front door. I was told by the school that it was best if I could find another school to place my daughter in! Which I did. After 9 happy months at her new school my daughter started once again refusing to go out. It was then that I learnt that the bully from her old school had been expelled for bullying yet another girl! And they have placed her not only in my daughter's new school but in the same class! My daughter has now started to say dreadful things such as "I wish I dead" and it is breaking my heart.
Make an appointment to ensure the new school has all the information.
Each time there is an incident report it promptly, read the behaviour and complaints policy and use them.
Any incident or report not taken to the next level is seen as being as completed to the parents satisfaction by school and Ofsted.
The school will know any reasons for a permanent exclusion from another school but may not know your child was bullied.
This is absolutely awful and shameful of the school to ask you to find a new school for your daughter instead of dealing with the bullies!!
Your first step is to contact the school for a face to face meeting and explain everything that has happened. If you get no satisfaction write an email of complaint to the Head of year. If you still don't get the situation resolved then contact the Chair of Governors detailing everything and all the steps you have taken to get it resolved. If the bullying is that extreme your daughter doesn't want to leave the house I would also be contacting the police for advice and for them to act if it's threats of, or actual violence taking place towards her. Good luck and I hope the situation improves for her.
I’m so sorry your poor daughter and the stress you must be under.
i have had issues with my eldest son when he first begun secondary school and just last week (yr 10 now).
In was told if it is threats of violence collect the evidence and call the police as they can visit the children in school or at home.
i have no words for the stupidity of the schools in placing her bully at the same school let alone on the same class xx
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I’m so sorry your poor daughter and the stress you must be under.
i have had issues with my eldest son when he first begun secondary school and just last week (yr 10 now).
In was told if it is threats of violence collect the evidence and call the police as they can visit the children in school or at home.
i have no words for the stupidity of the schools in placing her bully at the same school let alone on the same class xx
It's those words my daughter said I can't unhear 😢 my lovely kind gentle daughter say "she wants to die" because of a cowardly bully! I have been to the school today and was told that they will remove the bully from the same class as my daughter and assured that they "will keep an eye on both girls" I did tell them if there is one finger laid on my girl I will call the police and have her for assault and drag the school thru any court it takes for allowing it to happen! 😡
my daughter stood up to her friends bully- luckily the bullying ended that day ;)
my daughter stood up to her friends bully- luckily the bullying ended that day ;)
I wish my daughter would do the same and I keep telling her to do just that! I was very proud of her yesterday when the bully walked into the classroom and my daughter said " welcome it's nice to see you joining MY school.. was you bullied in your last school too" it did the trick for now but it hasn't stopped my daughter from fretting about the bully getting her back for what she said now!
