Bedwetting 9 year old DD

Hi moms,

So my daughter wets the bed, no big deal. If bean there with her older sister and im dealing with it with her younger sister.

The thing that is bothering me is her lack of caring, I mean she doesn’t care at all that she is stil in a night nappy. Her older sister cared a lot at that age and even her youngest sister is getting to that stage. But my 9 year old isn’t.

If I don’t tell her to go change she will just parade around the house in just her wet nappy in the mornings, and I suspect she is sometimes even using it out of laziness.

Even all het friends know it, she just doesn’t care.

And don’t get me wrong I love it that she is not ashamed cause she shouldn’t be, but a little bit of work from her site to quite would be lovely. It feels like im the only one of the to of use thats working towards dry nights.

The fact that she is wetting on purpose is something I really don’t like and do not accept. But I cannot prove she is doing it.

Are there more moms her that deal with children wetting on purpose, and how did you deal with it?

And how can I make her more motivated to work on getting dry.