New mjm here

I would like to find out your opinions. I am an asian which I think its important i relation to what I am about to say.

I have a 3 months old baby. My husband works 9am to 7pm and leaves home at 8am. 7 days a week. I feel like a single mother as he refuses to change nappies or to do the last feed of the night at 12am or 1am. He does play with her from 8pm till 11.30pm (to be fair to him).

He refuses to the do the last feed because he says he works and tired at work. He works at a salon.

Since the baby has come about we are worse than before. We never go anywhere and don't even sleep together. If we do it lasts a minute. I feel used and resentful. Almost getting depressed. Any response about how acceptable this is or unacceptable I would appreciate? Thank you all